Men

Have you ever tried to back up a trailer with a man?

It usually doesn't end well.

Sometimes if that man is say....

your father or 

perhaps a very patient man

or a new boyfriend

they might bite their tongues

they might take a deep breath

but

usually

they still will be frustrated that you aren't doing it right.

I don't help with trailers.

I only help when help is absolutely required.

Even then

I mostly try to stay out of the way

I try (with great difficulty)

to be intuitive to what I am "supposed" to do.

Lately,

we have had lots of help

or have helped lots of people...

I don't want to seem lazy or unwilling

so I try to help.

As I watched two men work together

it was as if they could read each others minds.

They were moving things 

heavy things

there was no communication on HOW the process was to go

they just lifted it and turned and maneuvered in unison.

HOW?

Today I am watching Dusty work with a friend

They are fencing 

and again

ZERO communication

they just go to work and get it done

No yelling

No misunderstandings

No one standing around awkwardly 

I am positive that there is a secret language that 

I never got the code to...